Today we will discuss a very important topic that is “How to live a happy life”.
This article is specially for those who find it difficult to live a happy life.Who are always complaining about there life.
I straight away want to tell you the secret for “how to live a happy life” to save your time.
The secret to “live a happy life” is to “live a life happily”.
Simple and the only way you can live a happy life.Now this was it, those who understood the meaning behind this , have got my answer.Yes I am finished with my secret this is the only way.
Now those who still want to continue reading the article and want deep explanation and meaning they can continue.
But let me tell you in rest of the article I will just prove my statement and for those who find it really difficult to live a happy life ,I ill just brain wash you.
I will brain wash you to believe that living a life happily is very easy.
Lets play a game,where I will just ask you to think for one minute.
I ask you to think for a minute of people around you,they can be your friends,relatives colleagues etc. Whom you know.Think how they behave at any situation(good or bad situation), how they deal with things,how they see their life.
Ok your time ends now.What you thought and what you got.Nothing ,I know you still not able to make out what I am trying to do.
Now my main motive to make you think was to make you pick one person,who always be happy what so ever the situation is.I know every one have at least one person in his/her life who always stay happy.
There are many who are not able to be happy in life and few who are always happy.So now leave those who are not able to be happy and pick the one from your life who always stay happy.
Think about them, they are always happy and that is not by force ,they are happy because they feel it.When you thought about that person what did you realize, did you realized that he/she find any difficulty in living his/her life happily.
The answer is no,if he/she can be happy then why cant you.
Now lets play another game I will ask you to just feel happy for only five minutes from within,feel that you are actually happy.You can do it any time when you are free if not now.
Do it the way I say.
-Sit in place where no disturbance their
-First feel happy from within
-Forget completely your past bad times.
-Forget your future plans or tension.
-Feel that you are in some different world for 5 minutes.
-Just relax and feel this new world of happiness for just 5 minutes.
-Feel now,feel your most happy moments which are these 5 minutes.
If you are done with the exercise I am sure you had felt from within that being happy is not difficult its very easy actually.You have to do nothing just have to feel it that you are happy at the moment.
“People are just as happy as they make up their minds to be.”
― Abraham Lincoln
Now lets check out why you always find it little difficult to be happy in life
Some possible reasons you were not happy in life..
1. Always thinking about mistakes ,blunders ,bad incidents etc. happened in past.
2. You take tensions of future ,what will be your future,what problems you have to face etc..
3. And never try to feel happy for the moment in which you are in spite of it you were busy in jealousy ,hatred and other reasons etc.
These are only three reasons ,why you were not happy in life .Only three reasons.Now see its not a huge list to work on or some difficult task that I am telling you.I am just telling you 3 problems and one solution.What could be as simple as that.
I am just telling you to feel the moment ,to feel happy about the moment you are living.Is there any easy thing then this.
Now I will make it more simple….
Now lets play another and last game ,this time I will again ask you simple questions.
1. Tell me one person on this planet who don’t have problems in life?
2.Tell me one person who don’t have future tension?
I know you cant name out not even single person on this planet who never have or had tension in life, problems,hurdles in life.
This is completely natural,it comes to everyone.Tell me what is the logic to take tension of problems that might come to you or tension of those things that are already happened to you.
As I said earlier that this article is for those who really find it difficult to live a happy life.So with my experience of observing people thoroughly I have come to know that their attitude in life is not correct.
I always believe and say that its all about mind.Whatever ever we think we do.Its brain/mind which is the powerful part of our body.Now its up to you ,how you utilize it.
“Its always our choice to be happy or unhappy in life”
Now I will tell you some of the things that you have to correct and these things that I have also developed in my life too.
Tips on How to live a happy life
1.Always welcome problems in life,its good.
Confused what I am saying but I exactly know what I am saying,I will explain you how.
This is the biggest problems with many that they cant handle pressure ,they are broken when problems come to their life and this leads to a unhappy life
You always look into a bad side but you ever tried to see the other side of it,never.I will tell you how I see problems in life.
Problems in life is to teach you something.
I have faced a long phase of problems in life and I can bet this period was my best period that could happen to me I have learned a lot of things.
Problems in life make you tough.
Problems in life make you more tough ,It teaches you the art of handling problems in life.
So I suggest you to to be cool &calm when problems come to you and learn from it,it has come to you to teach you something.
2.Try to pull out good things.
I have seen and observed that people always see the bad side of every thing.They always pin point the negative part of everything comes to them.But I think that if some thing have good side then it must be having bad side too and vice versa. So why you always look into the bad side of it,try to see the good side of it.
Actually this is a psychological problem that they have developed and they have made this as their habit.
I want you to change it,I want you to see the positive things.
So when I present you a rose then I want you to see the beauty of rose not the thorns.
3. Say no to Jealousy ,hatred ,comparing & start loving ,forgiving and appreciating.
Jealousy ,hatred and comparing are some of the reason that leads you to be unhappy in life.Because in spite focusing of good things you waste time in all these waste things.These things wont give you any thing.
Start loving-You know you are the beautiful creation of god but you didn’t know that.The reason behind is that
You never tried to know your self because you busy in looking what others are doing(jealousy),
You never loved your self because you were busy in (hatred).
You never compared you with yourself because you were busy in comparing with others,that’s really bad..
Start loving your self and spread love with others.
Start forgiving- Make a habit of forgiving others ,human make mistakes its completely natural .So start forgiving your friends ,relatives and people around you.
Start appreciating- Start appreciating the deserving one ,appreciate the work of others,appreciate yourself.
4. Lower the expectation and increase the happiness.
I am not saying you to totally forget to expect things I am just saying you to work more expect less.It is a believe and observation that expectation is one of the main cause of unhappy life.
I suggest you to work for the best and expect least.
If you still want to know more about how to live a happy life then check out this,
How to Live a Happy Life – 101 Ways to be happier.
Your Opinion – How to live a happy life
I think I gave the best of my knowledge and experience in front of you.Now I like you to participate in the discussion ,you can share your views and you can also ask any queries if you have.