Today we will discuss a very important topic that is “How to live a happy life”.
This article is specially for those who find it difficult to live a happy life.Who are always complaining about there life.
I straight away want to tell you the secret for “how to live a happy life” to save your time.
The secret to “live a happy life” is to “live a life happily”.
Simple and the only way you can live a happy life.Now this was it, those who understood the meaning behind this , have got my answer.Yes I am finished with my secret this is the only way.
Now those who still want to continue reading the article and want deep explanation and meaning they can continue.
But let me tell you in rest of the article I will just prove my statement and for those who find it really difficult to live a happy life ,I ill just brain wash you.
I will brain wash you to believe that living a life happily is very easy.
Lets play a game,where I will just ask you to think for one minute.
I ask you to think for a minute of people around you,they can be your friends,relatives colleagues etc. Whom you know.Think how they behave at any situation(good or bad situation), how they deal with things,how they see their life.
Think…………………………………
Ok your time ends now.What you thought and what you got.Nothing ,I know you still not able to make out what I am trying to do.
Now my main motive to make you think was to make you pick one person,who always be happy what so ever the situation is.I know every one have at least one person in his/her life who always stay happy.
There are many who are not able to be happy in life and few who are always happy.So now leave those who are not able to be happy and pick the one from your life who always stay happy.
Think about them, they are always happy and that is not by force ,they are happy because they feel it.When you thought about that person what did you realize, did you realized that he/she find any difficulty in living his/her life happily.
The answer is no,if he/she can be happy then why cant you.
Now lets play another game I will ask you to just feel happy for only five minutes from within,feel that you are actually happy.You can do it any time when you are free if not now.
Do it the way I say.
-Sit in place where no disturbance their
-First feel happy from within
-Forget completely your past bad times.
-Forget your future plans or tension.
-Feel that you are in some different world for 5 minutes.
-Just relax and feel this new world of happiness for just 5 minutes.
-Feel now,feel your most happy moments which are these 5 minutes.
If you are done with the exercise I am sure you had felt from within that being happy is not difficult its very easy actually.You have to do nothing just have to feel it that you are happy at the moment.
“People are just as happy as they make up their minds to be.”
― Abraham Lincoln
Now lets check out why you always find it little difficult to be happy in life
Some possible reasons you were not happy in life..
1. Always thinking about mistakes ,blunders ,bad incidents etc. happened in past.
2. You take tensions of future ,what will be your future,what problems you have to face etc..
3. And never try to feel happy for the moment in which you are in spite of it you were busy in jealousy ,hatred and other reasons etc.
These are only three reasons ,why you were not happy in life .Only three reasons.Now see its not a huge list to work on or some difficult task that I am telling you.I am just telling you 3 problems and one solution.What could be as simple as that.
I am just telling you to feel the moment ,to feel happy about the moment you are living.Is there any easy thing then this.
Now I will make it more simple….
Now lets play another and last game ,this time I will again ask you simple questions.
1. Tell me one person on this planet who don’t have problems in life?
2.Tell me one person who don’t have future tension?
I know you cant name out not even single person on this planet who never have or had tension in life, problems,hurdles in life.
This is completely natural,it comes to everyone.Tell me what is the logic to take tension of problems that might come to you or tension of those things that are already happened to you.
Change Your attitude …. 
As I said earlier that this article is for those who really find it difficult to live a happy life.So with my experience of observing people thoroughly I have come to know that their attitude in life is not correct.
I always believe and say that its all about mind.Whatever ever we think we do.Its brain/mind which is the powerful part of our body.Now its up to you ,how you utilize it.
Believe me
“Its always our choice to be happy or unhappy in life”
Now I will tell you some of the things that you have to correct and these things that I have also developed in my life too.
Tips on How to live a happy life
1.Always welcome problems in life,its good.
Confused what I am saying but I exactly know what I am saying,I will explain you how.
This is the biggest problems with many that they cant handle pressure ,they are broken when problems come to their life and this leads to a unhappy life
You always look into a bad side but you ever tried to see the other side of it,never.I will tell you how I see problems in life.
Problems in life is to teach you something.
I have faced a long phase of problems in life and I can bet this period was my best period that could happen to me I have learned a lot of things.
Problems in life make you tough.
Problems in life make you more tough ,It teaches you the art of handling problems in life.
So I suggest you to to be cool &calm when problems come to you and learn from it,it has come to you to teach you something.
2.Try to pull out good things.
I have seen and observed that people always see the bad side of every thing.They always pin point the negative part of everything comes to them.But I think that if some thing have good side then it must be having bad side too and vice versa. So why you always look into the bad side of it,try to see the good side of it.
Actually this is a psychological problem that they have developed and they have made this as their habit.
I want you to change it,I want you to see the positive things.
So when I present you a rose then I want you to see the beauty of rose not the thorns.
3. Say no to Jealousy ,hatred ,comparing & start loving ,forgiving and appreciating.
Jealousy ,hatred and comparing are some of the reason that leads you to be unhappy in life.Because in spite focusing of good things you waste time in all these waste things.These things wont give you any thing.
Start loving-You know you are the beautiful creation of god but you didn’t know that.The reason behind is that
You never tried to know your self because you busy in looking what others are doing(jealousy),
You never loved your self because you were busy in (hatred).
You never compared you with yourself because you were busy in comparing with others,that’s really bad..
Start loving your self and spread love with others.
Start forgiving- Make a habit of forgiving others ,human make mistakes its completely natural .So start forgiving your friends ,relatives and people around you.
Start appreciating- Start appreciating the deserving one ,appreciate the work of others,appreciate yourself.
4. Lower the expectation and increase the happiness.
I am not saying you to totally forget to expect things I am just saying you to work more expect less.It is a believe and observation that expectation is one of the main cause of unhappy life.
I suggest you to work for the best and expect least.
If you still want to know more about how to live a happy life then check out this,
How to Live a Happy Life – 101 Ways to be happier.
Your Opinion – How to live a happy life
I think I gave the best of my knowledge and experience in front of you.Now I like you to participate in the discussion ,you can share your views and you can also ask any queries if you have.
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Hi Shorya
Great Post !
We all want to lead a happy life and in order to lead that, we plan a lot and in planning and executing we forget about the present and what I have always felt, people who live in present and enjoy the present moment are leading a happy life.
You rightly said we all have problems or have potential problems and we feel that we are the ultimate sufferers and the only one who is suffering, the grass is greener on the other side.
Appreciation is the habit which I have developed while I was in the job and it paved the way for the great results. Believe me jealousy is what I hate the most.
One gem which is completely missing in me and which I liked the most is Love yourself, this is the starting point of everything.
Thanks for sharing this.
Sapna
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Hi Sapna Ji,
Thanks alot.I am very happy to see that you realize the importance of present.It happens with many that they are really always into past and future and miss their present.
Appreciating ,loving , forgiving yes this something every one should do as many people are more busy in jealousy , hater and comparing as i mentioned in the article.that is really bad and my advice are totally for them “Appreciating ,loving , forgiving “.
I hope you now understand why you should love yourself .If you can love yourself then only you can share love with others.
Thank You
Shorya Bist
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Hey Shorya,
Someone told me that happiness is a choice. And I believed it.
- Akos
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Hi Akos,
Yes exactly it is our choice to be happy or unhappy in life.Actually its all in from our mind.If we really want to be happy in life and feel it from within then whatsoever is the situation we can handle it with ease and also stay happy.Many people are just physcological problem that they feel that their not living happy life they are the one believe that problems are always in their life only. But it is totally wrong, problem comes to every one what matters is how you handle .
Thank You
Shorya Bist
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Hi Shorya
I watched as other people that had very little, were being so happy. I knew it must have been more than what you had. I have had better and was happy, but it was never lasting.
When I was faced with enormous debt and no job, I decided I really needed to find happiness. So I thought about how to find it. I woke up one morning and felt a calmness fall over me. I put on a smile…just for me and then I realized that is what true happiness is. That can never be taken away from me. So for those that still don’t get it, the real quick way is to just start smiling. It has a huge impact on how you feel. When you feel down, just smile, it has a chemical impact on how you actually feel. Pretty powerful stuff.
Thanks Shorya for the great post.
Mary
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Hi Mary,
Nice to know that you have found a way to keep you happy, the point you have mentioned is actually i do at times when problems come to me ,i smile on situations and as i said i believe that problems come to teach you something so i never get unhappy in life that why problems to me.
Thank You
Shorya Bist
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I truly believe that our ideas are materializeю so they way we think about our life that things happen to us. Only positive thinking will bring us to happiness or better to say harmony. Thanks for the chance to give a minute to sit and think about such things! Great job!
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Hi Tim,
Great to see that you know the value of believing from within.Yes not only happiness whatever we think and believe we can achieve that.Many people are unhappy because they are really dont believe that living a hapy life is actually easy and they never try to feel happy from within. They are always scared of problems in life always complaining. That is actually bad.
I say again here ” Its our choice to be happy or unhappy in life”
Thank You
Shorya Bist
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I have realized that happiness is truly an inside job, Shorya. The more I tried to find happiness outside myself, the more it eluded me. Now I know it’s all about my attitude. Thanks for a good reminder.
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Hi Corinne,
Thanks for coming to Youthofest. Yes exactly the only way to be happy in life is to believe and feel happy from within.You dont have to ask people around you to be happy.
Yes attitude in life is very important not only to achieve happiness but also for everything correct attitude is very important.The points which i have mentioned for correcting the attitude is truely from my observation on people who are unhappy in life and are missing those things(points) in their life.
Thank You
Shorya Bist
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I agree, the way you perceive life is how it goes about. All points nicely mentioned here and I totally agree with being non-judgmental about life, your mistakes and faults and just looking forward.
Nice post!
Aditya
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Hi Aditya,
Thanks for sharing your views. Yes exactly what you believe you achieve but believe must be strong.If one have to be happy in life then he/should definitely believe and feel happiness from within.
Thank You
Shorya Bist
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Hi Shorya,
Wow, so much great advice in your post. Thank you for writing it. I loved the way you broken down the reasons for why we create unhappiness in our lives and what we can do to be truly happy. I really liked the point you made about welcoming our problems. This really does help in shifting our prespective.
A little trick I’ve been using for the past 8 years is to wake up every morning and while I’m brushing my teeth, I will smile widely into the mirror. I instantly feel happy and it sets me for the rest of the day.
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Hi Hiten,
Thanks for sharing your view over the topic and i am glad that you liked my advices.
I have divided this article into section because i know if from the beginning i ill pin points on causes and why they were not happy any body will get irritated because this actually relate them.
So i first started with making them belive that living life happily is actually very easy ,you just have to believe and feel from within.
Yes actually many get scared when problems come to them or unneccessarily take tension that they are living a very unhappy life.Even i was to do it intially but i my prospective changed after i realiezed that every problem came to me tough but taught me something and was for my good.
Smiling and feeling from within that you are happy really help alot.
Thank You
Shorya Bist
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Amazing!
you write the amazing articles.I am totally impressed with your writing.
Its very much differently written and cleared what you wanted to say exactly.
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Hey great and totally true post… What you said is correct! We waste time thinking about others and hardly any people love themselves (few)… Nice article and it gave a good feel!! keep going!
Hi Akash,
Thanks alot ,i am glad you liked my points and you felt good after reading my article.
Keep coming!
Shorya Bist
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brilliant post, brilliant blog. My secret of living happy is ‘letting it go’ and living in the notion that it is good world.well written article.
I am keen yoga follower, found your articles on yoga quite. Actually I felt many articles are written by me, like benefits of green tea.
I am glad I came across this blog.
Hi Meenakshi,
Thanks alot dear, i am glad that you like articles .You as i said earliear every one can find their own way of happiness ,some said the best way they keep them happy is by smiling ,some said they feel the moment as i also said that you have feel happy about present moment.
Nice to know that you also have your own way to be happy in life.
Thank You for sharing your views with youthofest, Keep Visiting.
Shorya Bist.
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Well-written post Shorya!
Life is very simple, yet we all tend to make it complicated – isn’t it? I keep saying this so often in my posts too, that it’s very easy to live a happy life, but few are really able to do so.
Very little again is needed to make us happy, yet we tend to run after the wrong things and think that they will bring us happiness. Speaking of which, there as a time when during one of my Dad’s transfers, we had to shift with only a limited amount of luggage, while the rest of it would come in later. It’s surprising, but we were very content and happy with those 2 bags we lived on for nearly a month or more – in a new place. However, when the rest of the luggage came up, it did find it’s place in the house too, though it’s something we could have done without too. I guess we really don’t need more than half the things we carry with us to make us happy, but we think we need it.
I agree with your points mentioned. We need to appreciate even the problems, tensions, and worries that we come across, because that’s what makes us appreciate life more as we get to learn from such things. I just wish more people would learn to be happier in their lives by appreciating and valuing what they have, rather than thinking of what they don’t.
Thanks for sharing.
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Hi Shroya,
Good thoughts on happiness. I think a lot of people are not happy because they feel like a victim.
They don’t believe they have control over their lives. They believe other things or people have the power to make them happy or not happy. This causes depression and anger.
When we know we are in control of our feelings and we decide to feel a certain way then we open the door for happiness. Don’t let other people or situations have that power over you.
Thank you for this great blog post.
Tonya
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We are just overwhelmed with our problems,,
we all should learn to be oursleves and live a life with a mission.
You have rightly pointed that , we should not compare ourselves with anyone,, because every human being is unique.
never search for reasons to be happy,,
after all whatever you do in life is to be happy ultimately.
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Hello Shorya, this is my first time here. Like what I see so far.
Thanks for sending me this way through your comment on my blog.
Loved this post and all those are great tips. I think one of the best tip to live a happy life is to do what you love and enjoy doing it. Don’t force yourself doing what you hate.
Thanks for the great tips.
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Very good question and post. Its a very difficult one to answer. Its all about perception and how you adjust your way of thinking. Most of the time, people want money or something and if they dont get it, they are unhappy.
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Nice post really required for today’s life….
Congratz I nominate u for the wonderful Leibster award…
http://itjusthappenandthen.blogspot.in/2013/02/presenting-leibster-award.html
Hi Himani ,
Thanks for nominating me, i am the honoured.Soon will visit your blog.
keep visiting Youthofest
Thank You
Shorya Bist
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