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December 11th, 2012
How to get success in life? 5 steps to succeed in life.

“How to get success in life?” Is that the question which stuck into your mind or You think repeatedly what can be the possible ways or some kind of secret of success. or you find it difficult to become successful?

Don’t worry you are not the only one on this planet who is failed or find it difficult to become successful.This phase comes to everyone’s life when you find it difficult to become successful,it is very natural and the thing from which you don’t have to let yourself down.

In order to succeed, your desire for success should be greater than your fear of failure.
By Bill Cosby

How to get success in Life

I know you would be thinking what can be the tips and suggestion I would give you on “how to get success in life”.Friends let me tell you frankly ,Here I am not going to tell what you should do to become successful but I would rather help you to get out of these situation and help you to  make your own ways(strategies and goals) and decision  to get success.

Now let us first understand what is success?

What is success?

Many people thinks earning good amount of money ,having lots of property ,high class cars is success.No it is not correct.When you achieve something that you always dream of  and you want it in your life, that is success.A painter always wish his/her life with canvas and colors if it happens than the person is success.

Likewise to get success in life ,first you have to understand what you want From life.Spend some time and think what exactly you want from life,Where you want to take your life.Ask yourself what you want to be.

Here Some of the advices I want to give you which will help you to get success in life.This is from my experience and I believe that these are some basic tips that is applicable to everyone.

Here are Five steps that will surely help you to get success in life.

5 Steps to get success in life

In Youthofest I never write any thing to just run my blog.I work on the reality side and whatever I mention at Youthofest is after research and experiences.The tips I am giving you Below are pulled out from experiences of  the successful person today.

Find Your Inner self-

First of all you have to find your inner self.Take some time to understand yourself ,take some time to understand What are your strengths ,in what work you are good at ,What are the things which you can do to make yourself a success.

I believe that every person in this planet is meant for something and have some capabilities that make him/her different from others.So you have to find those qualities in you.Ask your self not others how you can become successful and what you want to be.

Believe in Yourself–

When you are sure what you want to do in life after asking yourself, the next thing which you have to do is believe in yourself.Believe that you are going to make it,believe that what ever you thought for yourself one day that will happen,Believe that whatever you wanted in life, you will get it some day.

Believe in yourself! Have faith in your abilities! Without a humble but reasonable confidence in your own powers you cannot be successful or happy.
By Norman Vincent Peale

Believe in yourself not others.This is a key of success we can say, Success can never come to you when you don’t believe in yourself.Today all those who are successful ,ask them how they become successful ,one answer you will surely get is that they always believe in themselves,they always believed  that whatever they wanted they will achieve one day.

Your success depends mainly upon what you think of yourself and whether you believe in yourself.
By William J. H. Boetcker

This is the thing which makes a person more closer to success.If you don’t believe in yourself than forget to become successful.


You should be willing to  give your best efforts in the work or thing in which you believe.You should be willing to take pain in whatsoever form it comes in.You should be willing to .Ask your self that are you really willing to do what you have planned for ,Are you willing to take pains or handle whatever problem comes in.If really the answer is Yes then my friend you can really Make it big and nothing can stop you to become successful.

Consistency and Hard Work –

It is very important ,you can never become successful without hard work.Finding your inner self and believing wont help you to become successful if you are not ready to work hard.

Striving for success without hard work is like trying to harvest where you haven’t planted.
By  David Bly

Hard work is a voice of pain and victory. Hard work is very painful and time consuming ,nothing can be achieved without pain,so don’t  hide yourself from hard work.

Now you are hardworking but you are inconsistent then don’t aspect that you will be successful.Hard wok and consistency should run parallel.


A man who is a master of patience is master of everything else.
By George Savile

Patience is the biggest thing you should have in you if you want to be successful in life.Many successful people say that patience is a key to success and it is really true.If you don’t have patience then above all is waste.

You loose your patience you loose it all – when you loose your patience you start loosing  your self believe and hopes , you start getting back from doing hard work.So to have patience for the right time is the biggest task of all the above and I can surely say that you can never become successful when you don’t have patience in you.


Conclusion  – How to get success in life?

Here at youthofest I am not any expert or something but whatever I write here is from experiences of others.So the above tips and suggestions are from the experiences of many successful person today.The tips which i mentioned above will help any one to become successful.These are the basic steps which you should never forget but here I want to tell you that the steps which I mentioned is really very difficult to follow .But as I said before you cant achieve anything without pain.No pain no gain simple.

Your Opinion- How to get success in life?

I am done from my side , Now I want you to express your views and experiences over the topic.Feel free to comment below whatever you think on the topic ,may be your words will add some value to the article.
Over to you.

About Shorya Bist

Shorya Bist has written 85 post in this blog.

16 thoughts on “How to get success in life? 5 steps to succeed in life.

  1. HI Shorya

    Well Said! Success makes everyone ecstatic and Unsatisfied. They yearn for more after achieving one level.

    One needs to know the Goal and then he should have the belief that he can achieve that with all his strength and might. Patience is the virtue and no one can deny that.

    Here consistency is the key, you can be successful in whatever field you have chosen if you are consistent in your hardwork. You need to consistently work towards your goal.



    • Hi Sapna Ji,

      Thanks for sharing the words.I wrote these things step wise because 1 is after the other.When mentioned finding your inner self ,many people they really dont know what they want from their lifes they just go with the flow what ever happens to them.I believe if you dont know your self than all things are waste.
      I am happy to know that you also give importance on consistency in your life which is very important as i mentioned in my article.

      Thank You
      Shorya Bist

  2. Heya Shorya, thanks for a great reminder-type of post!

    I definitely think the last 2 points are the most important, by far. Being constant in what you do, working hard to achieve your goals and being patient on your way to your dreams are definitely some of the main qualities of a successful man!

    Once you have the above mentioned qualities, the rest will come by itself. You’ll learn the “more exact” steps very easily when you’re motivated to do so and you want to experience and learn as many new things as you can!

    Looking forward to reading more of your posts, Shorya!

  3. Hi Andrew,

    sorry to say andrew i disagree with you here that only last two points are important that is hard work and patience,not correct.

    5 points which i mentioned are chained to one another and are related.Hard work and patience come at the last.
    I ill show you once again how every point is important.
    You work hard day and nite but you dont know what you are working for what exatly you want for life than you can never be successful.
    When you know what you want to be but you dont have believe in you that you will achieve it than other things are waste.
    When you have willingness and but you not truely believe in yourself or you dont know what exactly you want at the end then all is waste.
    And like wise ,One thing is missing and you are left behind searching for success.

    As i said in the article ,ask any any successful person today missing any one of the points.It is not possible.

    Thanks for sharing the your view over the topic

    Shorya Bist

  4. Dear youthofest,
    i would like to pay some gratitude towards you vision on youths…
    path of success is followed by most of the youngsters these days, they all have transformed into ore pro. stylers…
    your articles is providing very helpful and infact those things that a young heart seeks for ,,,,..
    keep up your good work


    • Hi Sunil,

      I am glad to get that compliment for Youthofest.
      Youthofest is just representing a point of view what a young mind thinks and how they correlate with the things and after reading your comment it seems that youthofest is going in a right direction.

      Shorya Bist

  5. Hi Shorya,

    Great tips for being successful. it does take all of these steps, but to me the most important one, is to believe in yourself. once you believe in yourself, when you hit those curves in the road on the way to success you know you can keep going.

    Thanks again and have a great weekend.

  6. Hi Deibbie,

    Thanks for sharing your view over the topic, i think every point is important as i gave a explanation how they are chained together all steps lead to success.I do believe that believing in your self is very important but believing also cant help if you dont work hard,you don’t maintain consistency,You don’t have patience etc..

    Thank You
    Shorya Bist

  7. Hiii Shorya…!
    Can you please write some points on the bellow given topic.

    “There will be a big success without commit crimes.”

    • Hi Sagar ,

      Mate Can you please elaborate a bit more so that i can understand what exactly you want me to write. You can mail
      Infact you can also participate in writing the articles as i am going to start a separate column for people who want to share some topic , experience , views etc..

  8. Belief in one’s self is a major factor to attaining succes, but, sadly, many people don’t have belief in their own capacity and potential to succeed.

    Great post!

  9. dis steps ar rili gud! Finding urself or gettin 2 knw ur inner self is d first thing! Dat I haven’t even done!!!!guess i av 2 start all ova again.

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